In case you didn’t know, I Love Birds!

A few days ago I realized that a momma bird had built her nest under a shingle in the rain gutter above our balcony. I love to hear those baby birds chirping all day long, and after I put MY baby to bed, I sometimes sit out there and watch momma bird fly back and forth bringing back food or twigs. She is so graceful! And you should hear those baby birds sing when their momma gets home! They go crazy! I can’t see them, but I can imagine that they are so cute. Their voices sure are.

What was the last simple thing you paused to enjoy?

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Photo by Michael S. Quinton

A Few of My Favorite Things: Our Pretty Toy Storage Ottoman

A couple months ago, Adam started pulling himself up a lot, which also means he started falling a lot, poor kid. I worried what people were going to think when he got his first bruise hitting his head on our coffee table.

I loved that coffee table. It was my first Craigslist purchase with Dave for our first place together. You know how I feel about Craigslist and you know how I feel about Dave, so I was pretty sentimental about that dumb table, plus it was pretty cute.

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BUT when my baby started bruising himself on it, I decided I wanted something padded. I also realized that all we really used it for was to put our feet up on … We didn’t need a table, we needed an ottoman.

Enter my great solution: a storage bench ottoman.

It is padded, comfortable for feet and bonking baby heads, AND would double as toy storage! I looked for weeks, trying to find a deal, but never found one that I liked as much as the Hartford Bonded Leather Storage Bench on Costco.com . So I bit the bullet and paid full price for a piece of furniture for the first time in my life.

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I love it now, and when we come down in the morning to play, I just open up the lid and baby starts pulling out the toys he wants to play with. At the end of the day, we just throw them all back in and the room looks clean and adult friendly once again. It has about 5 feet of storage space, so everything fits. If it starts to overflow, we will do a mandatory clean out of things that aren’t being played with anymore.

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And SURPRISE SURPRISE, now that I look it up to link to it, it is on sale! $40 off the price I paid. Grr. So if you have a kiddo and need a good hidden storage solution, grab this up Now! I like mine a lot :)

Click here to see it on Costco.com (they should be paying me for this)

The Organizing Bug: Pointless or Prescription?

Today I read a post on one of my favorite blogs, Small Notebook, that made me think “I wish I had written that first!”

You probably know by now that organizing is one of my favorite hobbies.  Lame, nerdy and pointless? Maybe and sometimes.  At what point does organizing actually help you live your life versus just creating more work for yourself?

(via Small Notebook)

I used to read several Minimalist blogs a couple years back who loudly and unapologetically preached their methods to the world so their lives couldn’t be defined or controlled by their belongings.  But after reading post after post that was pretty much exactly the same (Throw away everything you own! Own only 33 belongings! Move into a ridiculously tiny and claustrophobic house!), I realized that weren’t they, in effect, letting their lack of stuff define their lives?

Or so many of these DIY/design/simplifying blogs that talk about buying plastic containers to store and organize their coupons, toilet paper, anything-in-their-laundry-room in order to save money so they wouldn’t lose things and have to buy more.

It really is over the top sometimes.  Why do I do it occasionally then?

I was going to write a post this week about a great find in the Staples dollar bins that helped me get organized while spending a lot less than I had expected.  I needed notebooks to organize my thoughts for my two new church callings (YES TWO!) because I have become obsessed with writing down every To Do so I don’t forget.

(here they are, aren’t they cute? And only $1 each! Personalized with some cute downloaded fonts from here and dafont)

This led me to an introspective discovery.  I organize to help calm anxiety.  Not in the expected way of being able to find something when I look for it at a later date (though that does help too).

The act of organizing makes me feel in control.

So while it may seem like I am going beyond the mark of effort vs. effectiveness, it is effective in its own way.  Will it REALLY make a difference if I move things in my linen closet from one shelf to another and line them all up nicely? Not really, but for that 5 minutes of that crazy day, I would feel in control and relaxed.  (No, I haven’t actually done that yet … but now I’m thinking about it)  Or one of my favorite quarterly activities of throwing out 50 things.

Maybe that’s what OCD means, but I promise I haven’t taken it to quite that level. And I’m sure everyone feels that way to some degree, right?

Try it out and see how it makes you feel. You might just catch the bug too.


Becoming the Mom I Said I Would Never Be -AND- 5 Month Birthday

Today Adam turned 5 months old. Funny how when a month used to pass by in life, it was kinda no big deal, but now, what a difference a month makes. I take photos of Adam on the first of every month for his month birthdays and looking back through them today, I am shocked at how much he has changed. I feel like he still looks just the same, just longer and heaver, but when did this baby …

become THIS baby?

He did today I guess, that is one of his 175 photos from today’s 5 month photo shoot. Yikes. I have every photo of my childhood in one photo album, this kid is going to have to have libraries. The fate of the first child I guess.

Another big transition that has occurred in the last 5 months is ME. Fact: No, I have not lost all of the baby weight, that’s not it. The transition is that …

I am becoming the mom I said I would never be

How so, you might ask?

1. I chopped my hair off last month.
After fighting with the long frizzy mess that never got done, I decided to finally do what I have been contemplating for a couple years – a shoulder length bob. I always told myself I would stay the sexy wife with my long voluminous hair, but whatever, not with an infant and no sleep and no time. Here’s my passport photo that we took last month – I’m not trying to be cool, they just tell you not to smile. So I practiced looking sexy without smiling … it’s really hard.

{passport photo removed when I saw that people were coming to my blog trying to steal a “female passport photo” – there is probably an international criminal with my photo now}

2. I find myself shopping for toys.
Remember my minimalist kick not too long ago? I’d like to think I still am a semi-minimalist and enjoy having an uncluttered home. Before baby, I told myself I would be a minimalist mom and not gather a lot of toys and “stuff” – but as I watch Adam have so much fun playing with his few toys from Grandmas, I admit, I have browsed Amazon.com a couple of times thinking about future toys I’d like Adam to have, like floating bath creatures or building blocks. Here’s to hoping I can maintain balance.

Oh and by the way, Adam’s favorite toys to play with today were an empty milk jug and a baby spoon.

3. Mommy blogging.
I used to say I hated mommy bloggers. But here I am, blogging about being a mommy. Oh well, I am what I am.

4. Last and definitely WORST.
I found myself admiring a minivan driving down the street. WHAT?!?!?! I have always sworn that I would NEVER drive a minivan. It was a very cool, black minvan though that I am sure had a TV inside and some really hip decals on the back.

Here’s to embracing who I am and embracing my new, adorable little family every day.

OH and if I left you hanging on a cliff at the end of my last post when I promised to write my story of Adam’s birth next, I wrote it out and let’s just say it was horrendously long and maybe too personal to post on the web. So long story short, it was amazing and a little scary and not what I planned, but so wonderful.

Here’s a couple more photos to hold you over until next time:

And this is what happens when he is sick of getting his photo taken. Still adorable:

Neighbor Gifts and Moving Update

We moved! Only about 20 minutes from where we lived previously, so not far, but it was quite stressful packing with a less-than-3-month-old.  We love our new place, especially since Adam gets his own room and we don’t have to tip toe around him on our way to bed hoping we don’t wake him.

One funny thing about our new place though, we have lived here for over 2 weeks and only officially met one of our neighbors this last weekend, and only because he was washing his car as we walked by.  So rather than wait for them to come welcome us and introduce themselves, which it doesn’t seem like they were going to do, I decided to extend the first hand.  I made neighbor holiday gifts!

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While at Costco the other day, I spotted a 4 pack of Martinelli’s for $6.99.  That’s a great deal, I have since seen them in advertisements for $2.50-$2.99 each as sale prices, but I got mine for about $1.75 each!

I used tags from one of the many paper related blogs I follow, you can download the free printable sheet by clicking here to go to Jones Design Company. I used photoshop to make a sheet of just this tag, since it is my favorite.  I wrote a note on the back apologizing in advance for any crying they may hear from our direction, and letting them know they can stop by if they ever need a cup of sugar.

The main dilemma happened when I tied my first bow and realized I don’t know how to tie perfect bows.  Pause for a moment to exclaim how much I love the internet!  A quick search on YouTube and I came up with this video tutorial for how to tie the perfect bow.  It worked! I am so excited that it took less than 5 minutes to watch, and my gifts will look better for the rest of my life.

And here are some pictures of the progress in our new place!

Daddy putting together the new crib

The beginnings of a coordinated nursery!
(see the video baby monitor up on the wall? that thing has been amazing!)

My beautiful baby
(don’t worry, he can’t kneel like that on his own)

Adam is now over 3 months old and started to be fussier, until I realized that he is just bored!  He is going to be an active kid, as soon as I sit him in the bumbo or help him practice standing, he is really happy. He thinks standing on me is the funniest thing and will laugh and laugh! We are trying to get it on video soon.

I have been meaning to post about Adam’s birth for months now, but this week I think it will happen so stay tuned, I have been pondering about it a lot this week as we prepare for the celebration of the birth of another important baby boy.  My heart is filled with gratitude and joy, which I will share in the next post this week.

Merry Christmas!

The Best of Craigslist: San Diego (First Edition)

I am somewhat of a craigslist addict.  I have actually made hundreds of dollars selling many of our unused items.  My favorite Craigslist success to date has been buying and selling sets of dining chairs: I bought our first set for $30, then turned around and sold them for $40 eight months later.  I then got our second set for free, then sold them for $80 two months later, and purchased our current set for $40, for a total net profit of $50!

Anyway, my selling success aside, I also get a thrill from purchasing things on Craigslist. I figure it is the ultimate way to recycle! Why buy something new that had to be manufactured just for me, when I can get something second hand, in great condition and at a fraction of the cost?!

Now that I have sold almost every extra thing we owned, we have acquired everything we need, and especially now that we don’t have any more room in our 1.5 bedroom condo, I find that I still enjoy browsing CL for great deals.  Since I can’t buy them, I have decided to pass my great finds onto you with a new blog segment every once in a while called

The Best of Craigslist: San Diego

This series will contain some of the best things I find, some great, some ridiculous!  Please leave comments suggesting future categories for things you would like me to look for.

If I could be a professional Craigslist consultant/shopper, I totally would be!

Here are this week’s picks:

Awesome:
Large Bookshelf Cabinet – $50
Okay, maybe this doesn’t look like much at the moment, but with a little creativity and elbow grease, I think this piece could be AMAZING!  Take DIY inspiration from these following links of bookshelves, hutches or china cabinets that have been repainted and wallpapered. (Sample One, Sample Two, Sample Three, Sample Four+)I think the fact that it has drawers on the bottom makes this bookshelf super appealing, much like the smaller version of this I bought at the beginning of the year.  If I only had the space (and a garage to redo it) this would be MINE!
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/esd/fuo/2532259649.html
footrest/padded stools – $5
You would have to find the right thing to pair these with, but I love the shape of these queen anne legs, and for $5 a piece, wow! Maybe if you had a large master bedroom, they could sit at the end of your bed as a good place to sit and put on/take off socks and shoes?
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/nsd/fuo/2542647943.html
Did you know Craigslist has a section for free stuff that has some items that are even better than the stuff that costs real money?!?! Here are some awesome (AND FREE!) finds:
FREE QUEEN HEADBOARD -
Okay, so we did actually have a bad experience purchasing a headboard from Craigslist last year. It ended up having a really subtle but bizarre odor that ended up causing me to throw it out, but for FREE, this looks like it could be nice (and they claim it is like new from Jeromes)
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/nsd/zip/2542693709.html
Black chest of drawers (6 drawers) -
Someday when we have a slightly bigger master bedroom (soon hopefully) I will be finding a larger dresser.  Here is a free one! Again, there are a couple of small repairs to be made it seems, but I think this could be really cool and totally fixable (one handle and one loose drawer).  Free. people, FREE!
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/csd/zip/2541836523.html
Cable Spool (FREE) -
Okay, this huge cable spool could serve as a really cool outdoor table of some kind.  I think it has a really neat rustic look to it.  They lost me though when the ad mentions “Can’t rule out termites.” … So maybe not worth the risk, but what a cool look huh?
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/esd/zip/2538417066.html

Okay, now for the most absolutely ridiculous finds of the week.  The last two of these three are tied for the most ridiculous things you might ever dream of buying.

Personalized Jewelry Box (LISA) – $25
Hopefully you are in love with a woman named Lisa. If so, you are in luck!
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/nsd/jwl/2542231247.html
This week’s ridiculous winners:
Wall Mountable Cat CD Rack $5
To fulfill your dreams of becoming the ULTIMATE cat lady (okay really, someone PLEASE buy this, I want to come to your house and see it)
http://sandiego.craigslist.org/csd/emd/2541117615.html


PUPPYLOCKS***DOG FEATHER EXTENSIONS $3
Feather extensions for your DOG!  I think some cute, fashion forward girls can pull this look off, but wow.
http://inlandempire.craigslist.org/for/2512666217.html

I hope you have enjoyed this first installment of The Best of Craigslist: San Diego.  Please let me know what other categories you think I should watch for!

Time to Buy Gold

by David Hawkins

In 2008 I sent an email to some friends and family suggesting that they start investing in gold and silver.  At the time gold was at $700 and silver was at $10.  I felt so strongly about the metals that I was offering to fund their online account with free ounces if they just signed up and bought some on their own.  It was going to be a gift.  

Nobody took me up on the offer.  Some of the responses I got were “we can’t afford it yet” and “gold doesn’t earn interest” and “gold is expensive right now”.  In hindsight, that was a missed opportunity because gold is now above $1,700 and silver is at $40.  Over the same timeframe the stock market is roughly flat and the dollar is down.

Well that time has come again – to recommend gold and silver!  I can’t offer to fund your account with free ounces this time, though there is a company called BullionVault that gives you a free gram of gold when you sign up.  (I can’t recommend them though since I have not used their services.)

Well, you say.  I know that gold and silver have done well, returning 20-30% / year for a decade while the value of the dollar and stock market have plummeted, but why should I get into it now, and how?

Why to Buy Gold

I could write a book about the reasons to buy gold and I have certainly read many books on the subject, but it basically all boils down to one reason for me:  we are in the middle of a long term upward trend in precious metals (a “bull market” in industry lingo).  Nobody can doubt that now.  The fundamentals driving this bull market are government deficits, money printing and market uncertainty.  If you think that those trends will continue to get worse before they improve, then you should buy gold.

To me it all starts with the out of control government budget deficits, which causes the Central Bank to print money to buy the government debt (called Quantitative Easing), which leads to market instability.  The irony is that the politicians and central planners actually think that printing money helps an economy.   Since these trends are well in place and will get much worse before they get better, gold will continue to outperform just about every other type of asset.

How to Buy Gold

There are a couple of ways to buy gold.  Let me review each that I use and make a recommendation for what you could do based on your circumstances.   Here goes:

Visit your local Coin Shop

This is a good option if you want to actually hold the metals in your hand.   However, you will want to purchase at least $2,000 at a time as sales taxes may apply otherwise.   In San Diego I like Liberty Coin in downtown Del Mar.  They have very knowledgeable staff who won’t try to talk you into buying a numismatic coin.  Numismatics are old or rare coins that derive their value from the idea that they are collectables, not from the metals themselves.   I don’t recommend numismatics.  I recommend what is called bullion – purchasing a coin or bar of gold or silver for the value of the metal that makes it up.

Purchase a Stock or Fund

If you already have a brokerage account for trading stocks then this is an easy way to do it.  Many investors don’t like this option because there are so many entities between you and your gold.   They point out that technically you don’t own the gold, you own an entity that owns gold.

I own the following funds that hold gold and silver: Central Fund of Canada (CEF), GLD and SIVR. Also, I invest in GDX, which is a fund that owns precious metals mining companies.  Obviously, mining companies increase in value as the price of the metals goes up.  However at the same time they are known for being more volatile and having leverage.  So, if the metals increase by 10%, you can expect a mining company to possibly increase by twice that amount or more.  They don’t always do that at the same time though.  Gold and Silver are up over 30% in the past 8 months.  GDX hasn’t budged.

Storage Programs

Storage programs are the preferable method in my opinion.  The way these things work is you open an account much like you would an online bank account.  You fund the account and then purchase gold that they store in their vault.  The key to look for here is a company that will allocate and store the metals in your name.  You don’t want a pooled account where defining who actually owns the metal can be iffy.  Depending on how much money you have to invest, I like two companies:

GoldMoney is great if you have $5,000 or more to invest at a time, since the account has to be funded via wire transfer.   The cool thing about this company is that the vault is located in Switzerland so you can tell your friends you have a Swiss account.  It is also the cheapest option if you have that much to invest.  Be sure to file the FBAR with the government if your account balance ever exceeds $10,000.  Also, there is a somewhat lengthily verification process that involves a notary since you are opening a foreign account.  I am told that they might have streamlined this process recently.

The other option, SilverSaver is better for investing smaller amounts at a time and it is much easier to sign up since it is a US firm.  SilverSaver has found an easy and automated way for investors with limited funds to start accumulating precious metals on a monthly basis. It only takes about 10 minutes to open an account on their website and link it to your checking account.  Minimum investment is only $50 / month and they store your gold or silver in your name.  You can sell it back to them any time at market prices or even take delivery to your front doorstep.

SilverSaver has set up a system where you can automatically deduct a monthly amount from your checking account to have it saved in gold or silver.  That is a good idea for those of us who need help with the discipline to set aside savings every month.  You can also just make a one-time purchase if you want.

Transaction fees are pretty competitive with what you will find at a dealer or any other company (7.49% to 2.99% depending on how much you buy).  Storage fees are incredibly low at .6%.  You can’t even invest in a mutual fund for less of an annual fee than that.

Conclusion

There are no excuses anymore.  The writing is on the wall – when it comes to incompetence in Washington D.C. and the bull market in Gold and Silver.   We should all be buying gold to profit from this trend and to protect ourselves, should things get really out of hand.   Fortunately, with minimums at just $50 / month we can all afford to do so.  Please feel free to leave comments and let me know if you have any questions.